Wednesday, 13 August 2008

When love hurts

The ones with the power to hurt you most are the ones you love most...now I'm not talking about the relationship between a man and a woman...I'm talking about the usual philia relationship between friends,siblings etc.
When I say you are my friend, I have exposed a part of me that I won't normally show the whole world and that in itself is deep.
It takes a lot of trust in you to make me call you my friend...only a friend knows the "best" part to stab you...that'll hurt deeply...
sometimes, we fight to deepen our relationships and sometimes...the fight only helps us to realise this relationship was for a season... sometimes...it takes the agape kind of love to make me want to relate with you regardless of what you've done or... said ...
Right now...I need a long dose of agape...Jesus take the wheels!!!

4 comments:

tobenna said...

Be agaped.
Do not fear to show yourself to friends. Thats the only way it can be truly reciprocated.
Chin up!

goodnaijagirl said...

Oh, I know what you mean, NoLimit!

It will be well though...and I'm sure your agape is within you...it's just waiting to come out.

Favoured Girl said...

It is well babe. Love is a risk but it is always worth the results. God's agape love is enough to cover you.

Buki said...

I share your sentiments, I have been deeply hurt by friends before but what I always say is that the ability to rise above the wrong done to you is your power over the wrong-doer. Try to find the strength to let go, forgive and let your light shine!