User Syndrome!!!

I'm loving this at the moment!!!





You call me and I don't pick up...you ask after me and I clam up...you complain we don't see often enough and I get defensive...you need a favour, I decline...Then I need your help and I expect you to respond immediately...
Why do we do that? is there any genetic problem that causes that? if there is, I honestly don't want my child sharing it!
It is selfish and it is called "user syndrome"!!!
I apologise for being like that and I promise to mend my bad ways...you're a great friend and you don't deserve such an off handed treatment!!!

*Me chastising myself for being selfish to my friend....

Hey peops, how have you guys been? great I presume...well I'm doing great too and I hope year 2010 will see me updating my blog regularly...yeah consistency is one thing I lack occasionally... frustrating but true...the post above was me talking to myself about the way I sometimes take people in my life for granted...family, friends and even sometimes God!!!
And I expect them to sneeze when I catch cold...how selfish is that? Aaannyways...have good weekend y'all and head up to verastic radio show for a very verastic time...that girl is crazy I tell you!!!lol

Comments

Myne said…
Being unselfish is also one thing I continue to work not to be. All the best on your journey.

See more of you around.
9 January 2010 at 18:47
seye said…
In two words:

TRUE
TALK
9 January 2010 at 23:50
leggy said…
have a great week ahead.
10 January 2010 at 13:43
Enkay said…
Sometimes, I find myself being that way without actually meaning to.

To err is human.....
Working on it tho'
11 January 2010 at 12:24
Writefreak said…
Great thoughts girl! No one can talk to us more than we can ourselves!
And i would say i don't think you're selfish at all..i actually think you're very giving :-)
11 January 2010 at 13:23
NoLimit said…
@Myne Whitman...Thanks...did I say congrats on your new book?...I just did...more wonderful opportunities in 2010 in Jesus name!!!:-)

@Seye...shey?

@Leggy...Thanks babes...hope your week has been great too.

@Enkay...Me too...I guess we all have our moments...

@Writefreak...sisto...I am work in progress o!
14 January 2010 at 00:16
SOLOMONSYDELLE said…
happy new year, babe! dis on na true talk sha.
14 January 2010 at 14:16
Good Naija Girl said…
I have been complaining a lot lately about how selfish my brothers are but I am definitely not off the hook on this! GNG needs to be less selfish for sure.

We'll work on it together (though I suspect you have very few instances of selfishness!).

Have a blessed week my dear!
18 January 2010 at 04:45
NoLimit said…
@Madam SOLOMONSYDELLE ...Thanks maam,wish you the same...my sister may God deliver us all from selfishness o:-)

@GNG...Gal you have no idea!!!lol.."few instances"?...haa more like truck loadsa instances!!!
We will definitely rid ourselves of this negative attribute(Amen)
18 January 2010 at 07:51
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