Take time out to get you. To know who you are and what your core values are so you won't be swayed by fads because year in and year out, fads come and go.
find out what you're gifted to do and what you're really called to do. That way you can add value to lives.
Don't create instability for yourself and others. It is important to be grounded. Deal with your lack of self believe, deal with your brokenness, you're not at your optimum when all these issues aren't dealt with.
Accept you for who you are.